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Post by ~:Treasure:~ on Aug 19, 2007 20:36:07 GMT -5
I was in my sister's wedding. We did the wedding and stuff. I spent the night with my aunt. Then, my mom couldn't find my dog,Rudy. This was in the morning before she came and got me. She figured he just went up in the woods. Then, when we were coming back we found him. He was lying along the highway,dead... This was 7:30 PM,August,19th. Right now it is 9:30 PM.same day. He is wrapped in a blanket in our basement. Right now I am sobbing and I can barely see to type...
That's him. He,at death, is nine months old. I loved him to death. If you could please help me and make some banners,siggies,poems dedicated to him. I am at this point going to make a page for him. Anything would help.
About Him:
He is 9 months old. His name is Rudy. He is red/black. He has brownish eyes. He is a red bone beagle. He could shake hands and sit and everything. He slept with you, talked to you, and danced with you. He had the sweetish little face. I love him and I don't know why god had to take him so soon..
So, please contribute everything you have.. I am sobbing right now....... Please, I miss him so much.
You may use this pic: i154.photobucket.com/albums/s258/Brightstar_Tessa/ImportedPhotos00010.jpg Or find a pic like him. I will put more picture up though.
Terribly sad,
Silent
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Post by Temperance Rose on Aug 20, 2007 5:12:09 GMT -5
Silent, I can not begin to imagine the pain your going through right now. A dog can worm their way into your heart and when they pass on, a part of you dies with them. Ruddy was an extremely young dog and was obviously very loved. He was a very handsome dog and seemed to have a good life. Hopefully you will have wonderful memories of him forever. I've lost pets in my time, my first dog who died when I was three, countless rabbits and guinea pigs, one that died on the day we got her, my fifth birthday. Time passes, the pain fades, not completely but a little, and you are left with wonderful memories of your darling pet. Am right in thinking this is the father of the puppies? If so, maybe there will be on just like him, you can always hope. I suggest you watch this video, it helped me and hope it will do the same for you. www.indigo.org/rainbowbridge_ver2.htmlRose
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Post by ~:Treasure:~ on Aug 20, 2007 8:58:20 GMT -5
Thankyou Rose.. It helped alot. And yes, Rudy is the father. And I do have hope. I already miss him as does his girlfriend. Ally B has been crying all night. I slept with her out in her dog box last night...
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Post by sno on Aug 20, 2007 9:01:10 GMT -5
Silent,
A dog is the hardest pet of all to loose. I know from expeirence. My grandmother lost her dog. Though the dog had a happy life. she was 16. It is different though when you loose a dog at a young age. You wonder what his life could have been like.
A dog is truelly a part of you. As I write this my dog sits on my lap. They seem to be a part of you that you can't forget. I'm sure the time you had him you had many many memories. Instead of wondering what life would have been if he was still here remember the good times. Remeber the good times you had, funny or just good happy ones.
When my grandmother lost 'my'// her dog I cried hard. Then I relized that I still had a part of her. Take his favortie dog toy. If it is rubber put it on a dresser. If it is soft and cuddly place it on your bed every day. A dog toy can defently be a part that you remember. The fun times you played with him.
If having a dog toy of his isn't enough take his pictures that are taken already. Put them every wear in your room. Take the funny ones espically. I really hope that you can remember the good times and forget the bad. Remember his wonderfullness(sp?) in your life.
Sno. A Poem to not only Silent but Rudy:
Life might seem like a dreafull thing But not at all Just because you don't have your friend there Doesn't mean he's gone
He is still there Right beside you You can't see him but he's there Your little Guardian Puppy
He is also in your heart. Memories are in your heart That of him Memories that will never be forgotten.
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Post by ~:Treasure:~ on Aug 20, 2007 9:17:38 GMT -5
-sobs- Thankyou Sno.. Although I am crying it make me feel better..... I will rmemeber him forever.. Expecial since he is the father of soon-to-be puppies.. His girlfirend, Ally B, Is a mother... I fricken hate cars.. -sniffle-
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Post by Temperance Rose on Aug 20, 2007 10:26:49 GMT -5
I REMEMBER
I stood by your bed last night; I came to have a peep. I could see that you were crying. You found it hard to sleep.
I whined to you softly as you brushed away a tear, “It’s me, I haven’t left you, I’m well, I’m fine, I’m here.”
I was close to you at breakfast. I watched you pour your tea, You were thinking of the many times your hands reached down to me.
I was with you at the shops today. Your arms were getting sore. I longed to take your parcels. I wish I could do more.
I was with you at my grave today. You tend it with such care. I want to reassure you, that I’m not lying there.
I walked with you towards the house, as you fumbled for your key. I gently put my paw on you. I smiled and said, “It’s me.”
You looked so very tired, and sank into a chair. I tried so hard to let you know that I was standing there.
It’s possible for me to be so near you everyday. To say to you with certainty, “I never went away.”
You sat there very quietly, then smiled, I think you knew . . . In the stillness of that evening, I was very close to you.
The day is over . . . I smile and watch you yawning. And say, “Goodnight, God bless. I’ll see you in the morning.”
And when the time is right for you to cross the brief divide, I’ll rush across to greet you, and we’ll stand side by side.
I have so many things to show you. There is so much for you to see. Be patient, live your journey out . . . then come to be with me.
Author unknown
I found this poem and immediatley thought of you, have more, if you want them. I still can't believe you lost Ruddy, t's like when I friend f mne lost her 10 week old pup.
I have a suggestion, put all of your photo's and videos that you have of him and make him a memorial video. My friend did the same thing and t's so touching, it made her feel better to.
http://zimfamilyco ckers.com/Forums/viewtopic.php?t=2386
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Post by ~:Treasure:~ on Aug 20, 2007 13:23:31 GMT -5
Thank you so much.. I am saving everything you guys write. Even though you can't see me.. I'm crying.. My cat knows I'm upset. She helps me type...
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Post by Sunpelt on Aug 20, 2007 13:33:07 GMT -5
Gosh... I thought that I was having it bad... My poor cat is mentally ill.
Poem-
Everyday I look at the empty spot, Where you would be sitting.
I place your favorite toy there, And cry.
Time will go by, I know that you'll be there, Watching over.
I take care of your sons and daughters and remember you.
Goodbye my friend.
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Post by ~:Treasure:~ on Aug 20, 2007 14:00:43 GMT -5
Thank you so much.. You guys are truly helping me... I can't belive that..he's gone..
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Post by Sunpelt on Aug 20, 2007 15:15:36 GMT -5
i've almost faced this so i know what it's like... i was told my cat was going to die on christmas eve...
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